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Frequently Asked Questions

  • How do I upload photos to my profile?

    Adding a photo to your profile is a very good idea that will increase activity to your profile by 15! Follow the steps below:

    1. click on the arrow near your profile photo in the top-right corner and select Upload Photos option.
    2. then click on Upload a Photo button or 'Browse...' and select the photo you want to upload from your computer
    3. click 'ok' or 'open' (depending on your browser) and your photo will be automatically uploaded


    Alternatively you can send your photo(s) to a special email address which is visible in your Upload Photos section just below your photos. Just email your photo(s) as attachments to this custom email address and our script will automatically upload them to your profile within seconds.

    Please note all photos are reviewed before they appear to other users. Below are some guidelines:

    1. only upload photos of yourself (no cars, landscapes, celebrity pictures etc)
    2. no contact information or advertisement (URLs) can be visible
    3. photo can not contain anyone underage (even in the background) due to the nature of the site


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  • How do I cancel my recurring membership?

    As a premium member you can cancel your recurring membership at any time by clicking on your profile name and select  Account Settings option. From there look for Recurring Billing, select 'Off' and press Save button. This way your premium membership will expire after 1 month or the period you selected and automatically transfer into a 'standard' non-paying account again.

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  • Why are my upgrade attempts being rejected?

    In case your upgrade attempt is rejected please try at least 2 times more (sometimes it goes through after 2-3 attempts).

    Most of the time your bank/card issuer is rejecting an upgrade attempt because they put certain restrictions on your card.

    Below are the most common decline reasons:

    1. your card issuer automatically rejects:
      - transactions from overseas companies
      - online transactions
      - transactions with 'adult' related content
    2. not enough funds available on your card or credit limit exceeded
    3. wrong credit card number and/or expiration date and/or cvv number

    If you filled out your correct credit card number, expiration date & cvv and your upgrade attempt is still denied please call your bank/card issuer and ask them why they are rejecting the transaction. If it is because of certain restrictions, you can request them to remove those restrictions for billings from our company. Once your card issuer confirms the restrictions are removed try again.

    If you are still experiencing problems after you called your card issuer please contact us and let us know the reject reason your card issuer provided so we can investigate.

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  • What is the difference between a standard & premium member?

    As a standard member you can visit unlimited profiles, read/receive private messages from premium members and you can like other users however you can not send messages yourself.

    As a premium member you can send private messages to all users (standard & premium) and you can also post updates through the site which is an excellent way to attract more attention to your profile! You will also appear higher in search results with a catchy 'star' icon (which means more views) and you will have full access to our Live Sex section where you can find a huge amount of full length movies.

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  • What is nude option?

    Nude option is an option that allows you to filter out sexual & explicit photos. If nude option is Off it means any sexual & explicit photos will be replaced with a default 'Nude' thumb.

    If nude is On, all photos will be displayed.

    At any time you can easily set your nude option in your top bar area by clicking on Nude switch.

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  • How do I send messages to other members?

    In order to send messages to other members you need to be a premium member.

    As a premium member, when you visit a profile you can send a message if you type your message and press the Send button. Any responses from that member will also appear in the same page. So basically the conversation between you & the profile you are visiting is always visible through this section.

    As a premium member when you contact a standard user, you are free to include contact information (such as phone number, email address).

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  • What does the 'star' icon mean on a profile thumb?

    The star icon indicates the user is a premium member.

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  • What does the green icon indicate on a profile thumb?

    The green icon indicates the person is currently online.

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  • I forgot my username and/or password

    Click here in order to recover your username/password by email.

    You will receive an email from us containing your username and a special direct login link with option to change your password. If our email is not appearing in your inbox please make sure to check your spam/junk folder too.

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  • Are there payment alternatives besides credit card payment?

    Unfortunately at this moment we only accept payments by credit/debit card with a VISA or Mastercard logo.

    If you do not have a credit card you can always purchase a prepaid/gift card with a VISA or Mastercard logo (make sure however the card doesn't have any restrictions in place such as 'offline purchases online')

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  • How do I increase my chances in finding someone?

    There are lots of things you can do to increase your chances in finding a partner on our website! Below are 8 proven tips:

    1) upload a photo. Fact is members with a photo get a lot more activity compared to members without a photo.

    2) be creative when sending messages to other members. Do not copy & paste the same message to every member you contact but write something funny/personalized to the person that will catch their attention. These type of messages get a lot more responses than just a plain message 'hi wanna chat?' for example.

    3) also contact standard & premium members without a photo. Some members do not upload public photo(s) because of privacy concerns. You can include members without photos in your searches by unticking the 'With photos' checkbox when you perform a search.

    4) add members you are interested in to your My Flirts by clicking the 'Flirt with her'/'Flirt with him' button when you visit a profile. If they flirt you back, the profile will appear in your Matches section accessible through the left menu. Being a match is already a good conversation starter :)

    5) post original/funny/catchy updates through the site. These updates are visible for all gender(s) you are looking for and are a great way to get noticed.

    6) visit as much members you are interested in as possible, when you visit a profile you will appear in the Visitors list of that member which is a good way to get noticed!

    7) check the Members Online Now, New Members, Suggested Flirts section daily for members you are interested in. Chances getting a response back obviously increase if the user is also online.

    8) Lastly, be patient. Some members (especially females with photos) receive many messages every day or only check their account a couple of times per week so do not expect instant responses.

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  • How to add more information about myself on my profile?

    You can click on the arrow near your profile photo in the top-right corner and select Edit Profile option in order to personalize your profile with profile description and more details about yourself such as height, eye color, body type etc

    After writing your description or changing your personal information click on Save button to store your updated information.

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  • How do I change my email address or password ?

    Click on the arrow near your profile photo in the top-right corner and select Account Settings option.

    To change your email address: fill out your password first and then fill out your new email address. Make sure you click on the blue Save button.

    To change your password: fill out your current password and then your new password. Again, make sure you click on the blue Save button.

    If you forgot your password you can always change it by clicking this link .

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  • How would a charge appear on my credit card statement?

    We respect your privacy. The charge will appear as HKXPAY.COM, an eCommerce merchant located in Cyprus.

    Our site name will not appear anywhere on your statement. Obviously we will also never send anything to your physical address.

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  • I received a spam message. What should I do?

    Sadly, it's a fact any big social community attracts spammers & scammers. They create fake accounts with false information and try to collect email addresses by sending out 'likes' or some even upgrade with stolen credit card information in order to spam other members through our message feature. Our fraud department blocks close to 500 users daily because of this however there are always some who slip through our anti-fraud system.

    When you visit a profile there is a Report option at the bottom right of the page. Please use this option to report anything suspicious and someone from our fraud department will investigate & block the account.

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  • What are 'My Flirts' & 'My Matches' and how does it work?

    When you visit a profile you can 'flirt' with the member. When you 'flirt' with someone, the member will receive a notification you flirted with her/him with the option to flirt you back. If the other member flirts you back, you will become a match and the profile will appear in your My Matches section accessible through the left menu.


    You can also view the persons you flirted (but who did not flirt you back yet) through the My Flirts section accessible through the left menu.


    You can also view the persons that flirted with you (but who you did not flirt back yet) through the Flirted with me option in the left menu.

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  • How do I block / unblock another member?

    Visit the profile of the person you want to block and click on the Block option at the bottom right of the page. You will receive a popup 'Are you sure you want to block this user?'. Click on 'Yes' to confirm.

    Once you blocked a member, the person will be removed from all your lists in your home page and search results and he will not be able to contact you anymore.

    Unfortunately, at this moment we do not have the option to manage your blocked list. So it is not possible to 'unblock' someone.

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  • How do I change my username / location / age ?

    First of all click on the arrow near your profile photo in the top-right corner and select Edit profile option.

    Username: click on Edit next to your username in order to update it, after that click on Save button

    Location: Click on Edit next to your location in order to edit it, select your country and change your city. You can fill out either your ZIP/postal code or your city name. When you type in the first 3 characters suggestions should start to appear. Click the correct city and click on Save button in order to save your changes.

    Age: In your Edit profile click on Edit next to your age and change your birthday. After you update it click on Save button.

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  • Who to contact for billing related questions?

    If you have a billing related question you can either send an email to or you can call our billing department number below:

    International Phone: +1 (661) 262-9552

    Please only use the above number for billing related questions. If you have site related questions contact us by email.

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  • What are your membership prices & payment options?

    At this moment we have 3 membership levels:

    Standard membership: 

    Premium membership:
    1 month: $29.95, renews at $29.95/month after expiring
    3 months: $59.95, renews at $19.98/month after expiring
    12 months: $119.95, does not renew

    You can upgrade to a premium membership by credit card payment and all major brand gift cards. We accept all credit/debit cards with a VISA or Mastercard logo. Unfortunately at this moment we do not offer any payment alternatives.

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